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“Killing Where A Game Was!”

Imagine watching a cover band singing the chorus to a song you like, and then just making up the rest of the lyrics. It goes from surprising to disappointing to comical. This is a travel story where that happened on my trip to Borneo. They didn’t expect there would be native english speakers that know the song.

I see the obvious challenge. Many of the world’s most popular songs are in English. However, most of the world are not native english speakers. I’m a little surprised it doesn’t happen more often!

Singer forgets the words on stage

Chinese New Year is a time for family, similar to Thanksgiving in America. For some reason I (ignorantly) had assumed it would be a party holiday (but I was wrong). I made great efforts to get out of a jungle and into a “major” city. Thus, part two of our Chinese New Year’s experience was in the city of Kota Kinabalu.

After walking the city, we found exactly one bar with more patrons than bar staff.  There was a cover band there, but we quickly noticed they were consistently singing the wrong lyrics to nearly every song. Many people don’t know the obscure verses but eve the chorus as well.

The crowd didn’t seem to notice and even started singing along with what the singer was singing.  When the lead singer noticed us at the bar, he suddenly  looked visibly nervous, and would slur the words he was less confident on under his breath. Then in between songs he stopped by and asked us if we wanted to sing!

Lead singer invites us to help

This isn’t karaoke, and neither my friend Cameron nor I are singers. However the singer insisted.  The next song was the Rage Against the Machine song, Killing in the Name of. However, he was all over the place, singing just about anything you could think of that rhymes with it the words. For a moment we even thought it was deliberate.

Imagine the band rocking out and belting the lyrics “Killing Where A Game Was” (huh?). I thought I just heard him wrong but then he did the hand motions to show different sports games.

As he handed the mic to us, we were faced with a question. Do you sing the correct lyrics, the lyrics he was singing, or get even more creative? Nobody seemed to notice either way.  Hmm…

Accidental Karaoke in Kota Kinabalu
Accidental Karaoke in Kota Kinabalu

Words are important!

The song ends with “F*ck You I won’t do what you tell me!” In their version, it was a bit more submissive. “F U, well ok I’ll do what you told me!” Very obedient.

The rest of the evening repeated this pattern. It added a fun curiosity to what they’d actually sing for each song. It was a fun game deciding what we’d sing as guest rock stars for the evening!

Neither of us are good singers, so I apologize to the crowd from the bar!

Here’s the actual lyrics to Killing in the Name

The Baby Rockstars of Mabul Island

This experience reminds me of what I love about traveling. It’s about meeting kids that haven’t been poisoned by over tourism. It’s about the opportunity to truly make kids smile. This is a story that reminds me what I love about travel. It’s all from my days on Mabul Island.

What I love about traveling

Do you remember the first time you saw a photo of yourself?  Digital cameras are amazing but it’s something some people in the world will never experience. I’ll never forget my first such encounter with a group of kids on an island off the coast of Malaysian Borneo.

Wandering onto the end of the island where the locals lived, I stumbled upon some really interesting homes, and people, including this group of children. I crouched down to get to eye level and introduced myself to a few kids. I politely asked if I could take their picture, showing my SLR camera. Silence.

I scanned the group one by one, stopping at the shy boy on the far right. 1st Boy: “No!” I almost left at that point, but decided to be patient.

helping these kids smile is why I love to travel
The Baby Rockstars of Mabul Island – Malaysian Borneo

The middle one, a girl, just shook her head (4th photo down on this post). It was looking doubtful at this point. The third one just gave me a blank stare, so at that point I either wasn’t communicating, or wasn’t welcome. After the longest five seconds, I started to get up when the third boy nodded. It’s important to note that basic mannerisms are different in every country, so you always need to learn what they mean in that country, island, or village, or at least be aware that they don’t mean the same as in yours. In this case I didn’t know, but I ran with it.

I quickly flipped my setting for a closeup portrait in that lighting, lifted the camera to confirm buy-in from the boy, and this brave boy seemed on board, despite disapproving looks from the the others faces. I aimed, and snapped the photo.

Beautiful Sunset at Mabul Island - Borneo - Malaysia
Here’s a beautiful sunset from the their remote island, Mabul in Borneo in Malaysia
Here’s the part that makes it all worth it…

I slowly turned the camera to share the image. The boy’s facial expression suddenly went from stolid to elated!  He lit up with joy. The other kids had a look of shock at his reaction so they squeezed in next to him to see the image. He started pointing at the camera, then pointing to his chest, then pointing to the camera, and then to himself. He seemed shocked at what just happened.

I asked the girl if I could take her picture and this time she was ready. She imitated the first boys pose, as if that’s how you have your picture taken. Genuine excitement. At this point two other kids noticed the commotion and joined in. I took one of each of the other kids, and group photos. They tried different poses, and after seeing them on my little screen they’d jump up and down. Each photo produced more excitement! Original Baby Rockstar perfects a new pose - helping this little boy is an example of why i love to travel They kept coming up with different poses – it was a photo-shoot and they were rockstars!

The Baby Rockstars try new poses
The girl couldn’t quite get her fingers to do what the boy was doing. We did maybe 11 takes. It was so adorable watching the little boy trying to teach the little girl how do it!
The Longhouse

I was on that part of the island to find lodging during my SCUBA diving trip, and ended up staying in the little village in what everyone calls the “longhouse” (pictured below). These are basically homes built on top of an extended dock that keeps getting extended farther into the water to add extra lodging to rent out, a little at a time.  I visited a few and found one to stay in. I stopped in the longhouse’s “hotel lobby” – which doubles as the living room, bedroom, kitchen and bathroom for the family of eight’s.  All eight live in that same room. I was surprised to find that I didn’t see any mirrors. None!  There’s no way of knowing, but if this is true, my encounter with the children could

quite possibly be the first time these kids saw themselves besides just a reflection in water.

This is what I love about traveling!

After living amongst them for a couple of nights I got to know a few of them – such good kids, living in such a different world. They were so shy at first, but by my last day, they’d spot me and run over with more and more friends, asking for me to take their picture and even come up with their own poses.   Boats on Mabul Island - Malaysian BorneoI love photographing wildlife, food, and architecture, but as this story demonstrates, nothing is more satisfying than capturing the human element. I love meeting and photographing people in little villages, and letting them see the photos. They don’t always speak any English, which adds to the challenge of communicating, but it’s worth it.

I enjoy capturing how people live, but it’s important to keep a healthy balance of taking photos from afar so what I capture is genuine and not posed, and requesting permission followed by a portrait. Photos with apparent poverty can be powerful, but you never want them to feel exploited. I’m even more careful when it comes to children.

Longhouse on the Island of Mabul - homes are built on top of extended docks.
They live in Longhouse homes – built on top of extended docks.


I was inspired by a documentary I saw on a photographer named Joey L, who strongly believes in the importance of going back to these little villages and giving copies of his photography back to them. Since it was unlikely I’d be back in the next few years, at the end of the trip I made a little slideshow of photos of them – and they all gathered around my little netbook to see it. I would have loved to leave it with them, but they don’t have computers and even if they did, they don’t exactly do email. If I go back I’m planning to print them out and bring them.

Here’s a final shot of our favorite rockstars in Mabul Island, in Malaysian Borneo:

Baby Rockstars enjoy their photoshoot
Baby Rockstars enjoy their photoshoot

Great experience! It was one of the highlights of my trip. This is what I love about traveling.  – Todd